Thursday, April 30, 2009
Farming Families
Our son came home from college during the three day Easter recess. I hadn't really planned on tackling any of the many projects on the farm to-do list over the weekend because I didn't want him to think I always put him to work when he comes home. But, he volunteered to come down to the barn Friday morning to help with chores.
After chores were done, we got to talking about some of the projects that needed to be done, and before we knew it, we were tearing down an old board fence that had needed to be replaced a long time ago. It just happened. But that's the way it is with Michael. Working on the farm with him is really not like work at all. It's a time for a father and son to connect and accomplish something worthwhile together. Conversations are natural and go just about anywhere. At the end of the afternoon, we were dead tired, but we felt really good.
I sometimes regret that we didn't live on a farm while the kids were growing up so that they could have experienced this great family lifestyle from an early age on. I am always thrilled when young families leave the city, buy a small farm and decide to raise alpacas together, as a family. Not only will these kids greatly benefit and learn valuable life lessons, but their parents will reap the rewards of really getting to connect with their kids.